1/13/14

I just don't understand the whole, "always cater to your man and submit to him so that he'll love you," thing. I don't need to be with someone who is so tender and insecure that I have to bow at his feet so he can have the confidence to be nice to me. I have my downs and insecurities also that I deal with. Those feelings have nothing to do with anyone's significant other. They have to do with what is inside each person and just like themselves. I cannot make someone like themselves. I can compliment them and show them I care but I wouldn't sacrifice all of my freedom as an individual trying to make them feel secure.